The daily crush of life sometimes brings out the worst in us. We often find it easy to blame others and situations for our problems. These complaints include:
The government is making me poor.
My family does not understand me fully.
My boss is a wolf in sheep’s clothing.
It is true that most of the things in the world are things we cannot control; the difference among two kinds of people is their reaction towards these situations.
It is possible to change the way you react to a specific event or situation. Understanding that we should stop complaining is the key in reacting to each situation.
What are the reasons why you should stop complaining?
1. You are your own boss. Everything that happens to you is a result of decisions you have made years ago. There are some people who have influenced your decision but definitely it was you who made it. You cannot blame others for what you decided on.
You are the one who has the control. You cannot blame others but yourself.
If you change the way you think, you will see that everything around you is a blank canvas. Your dreams are within reach.
What are your goals in life? What are your dreams? Have you created a plan? You have to begin thinking on it so you can remind yourself daily that everything can be reached if you create a plan of action.
2. The world does not revolve around you. It is true that the world can exist without you. It does not revolve around you. Everything in this world is chaotic but it is up to you to find meaning and order.
If the world continues without you, then you should know that you are in charge of your life.
You will then have a realization that parents nurture and look after children. However, this does not hold true when children turn to adults. The world does not offer the same zone of comfort when you were young compared to when you become an adult.
3. You should step up and be a leader. Being a leader means leading a life that you can control. It is really easy to find others responsible for the things that happen to you. However, this shows lack of responsibility with your actions. You also tend to refuse the possibility that things in life can be changed.
Leaders have great qualities such as being courageous and being willing to face your fears, admit mistakes, experience failure, and be responsible for everything that happens to you. This can break your ego but this builds character within you.
The challenge that you have to face now is whether you are ready to change your life.
You alone can make it happen!
To Your Success!
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